Talking about online connections (NSFW)

Jessica and I have been talking online for months and things are not much different, but I've been trying to break things off with her. I have gotten her to click an IP tracking link and verified she is in Ghana, but she still denies it, saying she has no idea why it would show that. But I have been avoiding her messages more and more and she knows I can never trust her.  The only pause I have is that I think she is genuinely sad and lonely, poor and looking for a rescue. Unfortunately, I cannot be that for her. 

Then came Stella, who was absolutely stunning and seductive. Yes, this was a warning sign because it's not usually how I find legitimate contacts on dating platforms and hookup sites. I don't actually remember where I met her, because we have been going back and forth for months and months. I think it may have been on TikTok. Well early on I discovered she was using older images from a fairly well-known sex influencer known as Sabrina Nichole (@onelasttaco on some platforms). I purchased what I thought was a personal 5+ minute video of her that was actually Sabrina. But I swear it was the cutest and hottest video I have ever seen and I was instantly intrigued. She tried to get me to set up a hookup at a hotel a few weeks out and then upped the fee a bit before the day, so I cancelled and blocked her. Fast forward a few days when she finds me online through a new account and begs for my forgiveness. She tried a different photo from someone semi-famous online and I caught it imme...

Ok, I started out this journey hoping for a hookup or a Friend with benefits primarily. Well I got in contact with a woman through an escort website and wanted to take her out on a date. We hit it off, although if you believe what you read about escorts, they play the role well because they want a repeat customer. Anyway, it went great and we ended up back at her place. I thought we would have a little kissing and I'd be heading home, but that's not what happened. I stayed more than another hour and had my first hookup in quite a few years! $bodycount+1 $bodycount = 4 I am hoping we can go out again, although I am wondering if any of it was a "real" date or just business. Hey, right now I call it a success after years of striking out!

Well, I finally got my answer about Charlotte. Whoever played this persona knew how to make it seem convincing. We continued to talk but she ran into a situation where she supposedly won a huge interior design contract in UAE, worth about $800,000, but she had to head over to the country in a week or so. Of course, she didn't have the money and asked me for several thousand dollars on a loan to help her out. I might have tried to help her out more if I had the money in the first place, but my suspicions were on alert. I continued to tell her I didn't have money for more than a week when she started getting pushy about it. Things were not clicking any further and she said she wanted at least $2000 or she would be really mad... so I blocked her. No, that's not the end of the story. A couple of days later, I got texts from several different phone numbers exposing my Facebook friends and a few nudes I shared with her. I swear, I only ever shared with two women... and they were ...

Peggy is one of the women I met from Skype and the only one I continued to talk with after the week I tried to make sense out of the bombardment of chat requests there so we finally moved over to Google Chat. Peggy was sweet, funny, and very entertaining. She was not overly aggressive about a relationship and liked to just chat about our days. I found her completely realistic and genuine. She shared a dozen or more photos of her days, claiming she was an exercise personal trainer at a nearby gym. We talked a lot about my efforts to improve my health and fitness. We hit it off and enjoyed chats with each other more and more and it eventually led to a few phone calls. I thought I had finally met a sweetheart, though she was more than a day's drive from me. We ended up "promising" each other to stay faithful and date each other exclusively, in a goal to eventually get together and bond. Then came the twist... she needed money to make the deposit on a MBA program she was goin...

I added Skype at the request of one girl who wanted to video chat and didn't realize it defaults to having you visible in search results. So that meant I was getting a dozen requests every day for people who wanted to chat. I have no idea how they found me, though I did determine that your profile is searchable by default. I didn't fill out any profile info for several days so I'm not sure how I was visible to so many people. I ended up chatting with several women and generally just blocked most. It's fairly easy to identify those with fake photos and/or are too obnoxiously direct with their offers. I did find a few women willing to sell me "content" and I've learned that they will often sell you photos or videos of other people. One woman was extremely cute and we had a short video chat on Skype, so I bought a bunch of videos of her for $25. There's something extremely hot about seeing an amateur on video, although OnlyFans would have been cheaper. On...