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Jessica, Part 1

Jessica is another rather strange case and one that will take more than one post. I met Jessica on AFF. She had a photo of a voluptuous woman in lingere but didn't show her face.  For the first couple of weeks, she seemed aloof and distant. We did not write back and forth too much, but at least once every two or three days. I asked for her picture a couple of times and she finally sent me one around the third week we were talking. She was amazingly beautiful and I told her so. Our discussion finally evolved more into our wishes and desires. Unfortunately she lives a long way from me and the odds of a meetup are slim for the near future. 

We exchanged photos a few times and I was absolutely mesmerized but it made me a little suspicious. Why would such a beauty be interested in someone across the country when she should be overwhelmed with suitors?  Our discussion evolved a little and I learned more. She apparently had come out of a very emotional and damaging relationship about three years earlier and still wasn't really ready to start normal "dating." I felt really sad at the stories of her pain and heartbreak and it made me want to be with this woman so I could give her a loving and caring boyfriend.

It was *me* that pursued her, as she was seemingly cautious for weeks afterwards. Finally she opened up and we started bonding on a romantic level a bit. I had high hopes that this was actually love, albeit long-distance. But then the twist occurred.

This was about the time I discovered reverse image search that specialized on people. I discovered she was sending me photos of Danielle FTV as if they were herself. Of course, I confronted her (when I probably should have blocked her right away) and she seemed extremely upset, claiming that she was too ashamed to share her real photos because she was so ugly and her self-confidence was broken.

Ok, I've read a lot of stories about how crafty the romance scammers are, so I really had no idea what to do. I decided to let this play out and see if it evolved differently. Accepting her however she was seemed to make a huge difference and she seemed to gravitate torwards a long-term relationship with me over my kindness and understanding. We kept talking for weeks but she was still too timid to send me a photo.

And I will continue this evolving story in Part 2

;-)

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