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Somehow I found myself on Xfun, an app for "meetups," and I had low expectations. The amount of people in my vicinity was quite low and many of them were suspicious. I think there may have been a few real women on this site but none seemed interested in me. I believe the app has a fairly high cost to message or "like" someone and the only responses I ever got either drained my credits or went straight for the scam. Your mileage may vary, but it's not a place I had any sort of luck with, but at least I didn't fall for any scams  ;-)

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